Sharing is Caring

The very concept of a backpackers’ hostel is that the accommodation is a shared space. This idea can be traced back to pilgrims’ trails across Europe and Asia, where the faithful would travel long distances to visit holy sites. Of course, Hamilton is not known worldwide as a particularly holy place (although we have had some people who visit with that in mind), but the model is the same. 

Often, cost is a primary factor, and travellers are looking for a place where they can cook their own meals, thus cutting down on food expenses. Other guests are particularly looking for a place where they can meet fellow-travellers. This is often for a shared experience, such as a concert or festival, but sometimes it is just for the joy of mingling and meeting new people. 

Fear of New People

Generally, people who dislike the idea of a hostel are afraid that they will be in danger in a shared space. They worry about theft or being attacked. They are used to the isolation of a standard hotel, with long hallways and locks on all the doors. The idea of meeting strangers, chatting together and eating together is alien to them when they think of their vacation.

Just last week, a couple arrived for their stay with us. They made their reservation online, encouraged by our excellent prices and stellar reviews. But – the bathrooms are shared? The TV is in a lounge that others can also use? Oh, no. We can’t possibly stay here. 

I am surprised when this sort of thing happens. Did they not make the reservation themselves, did they not read the descriptions of the guesthouse, did they not see the pictures? No – they saw two numbers: the price (low) and the reviews (high). I can only assume they were expecting some sort of cross between a low-cost motel and a high-end bed and breakfast. 

Respect and Learning

The alternative to this attitude is embodied by the majority of our guests. I spoke with one just yesterday, who talked happily of the time she backpacked across South-East Asia, meeting new people and trying new food. Going to the places the locals go and learning to speak some of the local languages. And sharing a dormitory with strangers? Not a problem. People are always so respectful, she said – they expect you to respect them, and they behave accordingly. 

As I have mentioned in a previous blog, a lot of our guests are international. We absolutely love that so many people are coming to Hamilton – which is not a city known to attract pilgrims! Perhaps we don’t have too many claims to international fame but, since 2010, we have had a backpackers’ hostel. And we are very happy to introduce our guests to the wonderful places that only the locals know. 

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